i have to come to realize that actually women are not that difficult to understand. they just want you GUYS to mean what you say. if you dun mean it, dun say it. it's my advice. if not you GUYS wun even know why your girlfriend or the one you liked is angry with you at times. we just sort of have that sixth sense commonly known as the woman's instinct to sense that if you actually mean what you say. we are not stupid neither are we dumb. my dad always advice my brothers "never underestimate women".